Dear Shamica
What’s on your mind?
Tell me what’s going on, in your own words. I’ll point you to letters and conversations Shamica has written about it, and help you write to her if you want a real answer.
An automated guide to Shamica’s letters and conversations. It isn’t Shamica, and it isn’t therapy. What you type here isn’t saved. In crisis? Call or text 988.
Real questions about love, family, confidence and change, answered with honesty and care. Browse by topic or search for what you’re carrying.
“I have a good job, my own place, and people tell me all the time how proud they are of me. I worked hard for all of it. But lately I feel restless and…”
— Successful and Stuck Read Shamica’s response →“My mother calls me multiple times a day and gets upset if I don’t answer right away. I finally told her I can’t talk during work hours and I’ll call her in the evenings.…”
— The Villain, Apparently Read Shamica’s response →“I’m single and I date, but I usually lose interest after a few dates. My friends keep telling me I’m too picky and that I need to give people a chance. Maybe they’re right?…”
— Picky or Particular Read Shamica’s response →“We’ve been together two years. Every time I bring up moving in together or talking about the future, he says he’s not ready yet — work is stressful, he wants to be more stable…”
— Patient but Tired Read Shamica’s response →Dear Shamica
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