
Letting Go Without Needing the Last Word
Closure is something we’re told to go get from the other person. Most of the time, it’s something we have to give ourselves.
Dear Shamica
What’s on your mind?
Tell me what’s going on, in your own words. I’ll point you to letters and conversations Shamica has written about it, and help you write to her if you want a real answer.
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Conversations
Honest, nuanced writing on relationships, growth and human behavior. No one-size-fits-all rules, just better questions and clearer choices.
Dear Shamica
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